sometimes I freak out over silly silly things, and do the whole "I'll say I'm not upset but I really am" and usually its because deep down I know I'm getting worked up over nothing.
arent we all like that. man i wish i could just let things roll off my back, but no i over analyize everything. maybe when i grow up i will get better at this.
i tend to do the "no, really, i'm FINE" thing quite a bit too. it actually feels good to get something off your chest.
i just have to temper it, ala Ubie, and not get upset. if i let shit build up then i can't just say, you, know, put the toilet seat down and stop leaving cigy butts in the shower, please..
instead it comes out like, graaahhh! arrrr! mother-father! you, why i..
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Stress is a mother phucker, no?
I'm a total worry wart, so I totally relate.
I always try honesty.
Yes, I'm upset, but I don't think there's a rational reason behind it. So, kindly let me have my snit and I'll be all better in a minute. Thank you!
The other thing I do: I say, "I'm mad at you for 5 minutes." That way, the time allotted to the upset is commeasurate with the offence.
I always do the "I'm fine, really" thing. I have got to stop doing that.
hey, we're all human. At least once you do, you can blow it off in a fun way. (I like the card)
arent we all like that. man i wish i could just let things roll off my back, but no i over analyize everything. maybe when i grow up i will get better at this.
brooke,
i tend to do the "no, really, i'm FINE" thing quite a bit too. it actually feels good to get something off your chest.
i just have to temper it, ala Ubie, and not get upset. if i let shit build up then i can't just say, you, know, put the toilet seat down and stop leaving cigy butts in the shower, please..
instead it comes out like, graaahhh! arrrr! mother-father! you, why i..
you know..complete with hand gestures and such.
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